Awesome

Life has gotten very interesting. At times it's hysterical and other times I splash cold water on my face and look at my watch to see if I'm living in real time only to find out that I am and then I laugh again. I'll let you know when I start pulling my hair out.

How important are the things that we value in our relationship? Does any of it help us define love? What's a good indication that you are not being properly loved? Some times it's good to ask yourself these questions. Simply put, it's just a good idea to take inventory of your life in this manner and determine if you've set the right boundaries in your life. Any takers on the matter? Share your comments.

Being courteous is to understand that an extended hand is the bridge that could lead to something special.

We are conventional, traditional, cutting edge, Not beholding but we hold greatness in the womb The very circumference of the earth is filled with all things birthed by us The rotating of the axis, constellation and the solar system Are the power source by which we advance the world Innovation and creativity clings to the strength of our intellectual uterine An incubation of all things created And yes all things liberated We are Oh so modern, vogue, refined and not so refined We are ahead of our time and yes right on the minute That split second most needed finish We ooze grace and femininity and everything in between We laugh, we cry, we love, and we celebrate We are a global catalyst of wonder and astonishment We are Woman

To Know that the Sun rises everyday is to have lived, To see the moonlight is to see the sun's reflection and to see the ocean crest is to know there is a power unseen. And to recognize such force is to know that there is tangible energy available on days I need to be propelled forward.~T.G

Some things are not always as they seem. I suppose the question remains does it involve me? And if I banter back and forth my thoughts in eliptical fashion, I would have to guess not, otherwise someone would have been quick to inform me. Hmmmm

I cling to my covers just a bit more this morning as if to not let go of yesterday; and in spite of my real desire to hang on to a bit of sleep I relinquish, sit up, and realize that today is the beginning of a new week. And with a new week comes new revelation and insight, and for some reason I feel anxious perhaps it's the excitement that newness brings. The seasons are changing and spring is fast approaching.

Can unexpressed love be love at all? Surely it can't, you would never have the benefit of experiencing it.

“ It’s back-breaking work,” he says, “to keep alive one’s feeling of delight when one has no doubt about the world’s constant acts of ugliness, the greed of small men, and the brutality of time’s unbroken progression ~Dobyns This is unfortunately true indeed. Somewhere in the midst of doing amiss and going wide of the mark people make the goodness of life even your life about them. But the spirit of doing wrong is hardly ever worth the outcome in the long run. Or is it? It would appear that the path less righteous is easier to follow. Just my philosophical musings this afternoon.

Is avoidance of poisoning the spirit of a child, woman or man. Besides to support and encourage the opposite is setting one up for potential failure in the future. Where's the good in that. Ask those who served time for crimes they should not have committed and those who served time for what they didn't... it seems like the need for the deepest truth is smack in the middle of regret and heartache. Which is why I'd much rather work hard on my career and be in love with the man of my dreams.

After today's walk and workout, moments of clarity have been found. Here's the thing, the direct conversations are always better. No need for go betweens. Don't ask anyone else to do the talking when we could communicate just us two or any party of more. It's just better that way. Even if we disagree. So my thought for the day is: I'm going to keep the direct approach. And this is worth sharing because why do it any other way. Can you find a reason for anything other than a one on one???

Is it true rather than correct the problem a lie is easier to believe?

So here’s the thing, yesterday I went through a plethora of emotions. I was agitated by the comment “you feel comfortable yet”? I hadn’t even started my walk yet, the weather was beautiful and the sun was shining. From my viewpoint why wouldn’t I be? Humph. I was confused. Maybe they were talking about my clothes, trying to make the most of my work out I added a layer, although I didn’t think that was the point of the question I allowed for it, or maybe just maybe I read too much into it. Whatever my thoughts I’ll just go with the latter. Then there’s this whole communication barrier that seems to exist in my household. It seems we’ve happened upon this un-welcomed interruption to our speaking lives and clearly it must be me who’s having the difficulty with translation. I suppose a little self-reflection wouldn’t hurt but I’ve been doing that all week and yes I will get the break through to the other side of understanding that we once shared. Besides to exist any other way well it has ...

Simply, Un-Push Pause...

Thoughts on finding my way back....  If you carve out a piece of goodness from me but feel that the whole of me is not good enough, please replace what you took and go carve somewhere else because surely you're palette can be well served with someone else's life.