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A Burger & Some Fries

I caught a glimpse on the web about dating. What to wear, what to say, eat-you know the dos and don't s of being with that special someone or someone of interest. It all has its place but it seems to leave out the main importance-building a relationship. That's really not a no brainier. I'm learning that people don't connect well socially.

Having graduated from college I'm fully grown and the younger generation are looking like "what does she know". Well I'll tell you this, I've had conversations in the cell-phone company, learned more about a guy than many several years my junior learns in two dates; and will have fun all the same.

That's why I say a burger and sweet potato fries goes a long way. If he’s funny well you just may have hit the ball out of the park. Every guy doesn't have to be the one and understanding that helps the dating process. You can focus on the friendship and if sparks fly then great. But if not perhaps you've made a good friend. Being in good company is an enjoyable experience. If he's the one it'll feel like a sigh of relief, seriously. Relax, laugh, and have a good time with ease. While you're focusing on your sexy chic clothes don't forget to have enough conversation for the date to be memorable. You know the way he walks, his hands and if he makes you smile.

Honestly, if he's interested and respects you, a cute pair of jeans and a sweat shirt will turn his head or make him walk away so his mind doesn't wonder to the risqué. Just thought I’d add that as food for thought. But of course this is grown girls talk.





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