When Fred Astaire put on the Ritz it was a dazzling show. Dove-tail Tuxedo's a cane, spats, and a hat to match. No mistaken those syncopated beats, a cadence of steps and three-quarter turns. However, wonderful and exciting it may have been it's important to make sure that we're not always “putting on the Ritz” in our lives to the point that our stories feel so contrived. What am I saying, when you sit down and have honest talk with family don't try and dazzle the truth with unnecessary fabrication be candid and sincere because that is truly the place that people will know you and it is also the place where lifelong lessons are learned. I can remember having these heartfelt talks with the elders in my family it kept me grounded. Moreover I didn't have to pretend in my own life. When you give your children that you help them discover who they are and take a lead role in their own lives.
Love is the thing that makes you smile, knows when you need a hug, supports you when you need uplifting, is a calming force, an ally when needed, but more importantly a hand to hold in times good, bad, and otherwise. Love is not be feared. But we should fear never giving ourselves and truly loving.
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