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Spontaneity vs. Surprise

Spontaneity definitely! It is the best surprise. The person on the other end of the gesture is less likely to let me know that something is going on because they haven’t had time to make elaborate plans. It’s not the event that causes my lack of luster for a surprise either (I love a good time) it’s usually the result of out of the ordinary behavior that fails at capturing me unexpectedly. I call it the lull of the surprise. It was too weighted down to “pop” with delight of unawareness. Spontaneity says let’s go to the beach, of course I’m all in. Now if I get there and I’m surprised it’s all good. The key to surprises is that you have to keep everything the same, that’s what makes it fun. I can honestly say few have pulled off such attempts.  But hey I’m the girl who dances in the rain. I didn’t have time to prepare for it, and that’s what made it special. ~ thoughts on personality

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